Stop me if you’ve heard this one: “I don’t follow politics because it’s all just lies and corruption.” Or maybe, “It’s too stressful — I’d rather focus on things I can actually control.” Or even, “Nothing ever changes, so why bother?”
Will Wright
I’ve heard these reasons (and even thought them myself at times), but over the years, I’ve realized that disengaging from politics doesn’t make the noise go away — it just leaves the decisions to others. That said, I understand how overwhelming it can feel to navigate the endless headlines, divisive rhetoric, and the constant demand to “pick a side.”
To stay sane while engaging in this chaotic world of politics, I’ve developed a set of personal principles. These ten rules help me keep my mind clear, my conversations constructive, and my focus on what truly matters. They aren’t etched in stone — I tweak them as needed — but they’ve been invaluable in helping me engage with intention rather than frustration.
If you’ve ever felt exhausted, disillusioned, or downright apathetic about politics, I hope these principles resonate with you. My goal is to make your political journey a little less overwhelming and a lot more meaningful.
1. Don’t Defend Politicians as if They’re Beyond Criticism
Politicians craft their messages carefully, but that doesn’t mean we should interpret their words or actions beyond what’s explicitly stated. I’ve learned to focus on what they actually say and do, rather than projecting my assumptions or loyalties onto them. Defending individuals I don’t know personally serves no purpose; instead, I choose to support ideas and policies that align with my values. Sure, we all have our favorite politicians because they championed something we care about, but it’s crucial to avoid giving anyone a free pass, whether their last name is Obama or Trump. At the end of the day, politicians are public servants — we should admire their work, not excuse their faults.
2. Accept That You Can’t Be an Expert on Everything
Running a country is no small task, and politics is a vast, complex field — no single person can know it all. Rather than pretending to have all the answers, I focus on areas where I feel confident and freely admit when I’m unfamiliar with a topic. Saying “I don’t know” isn’t a weakness; it’s a sign of humility and openness.
Thankfully, there are countless resources to help deepen your understanding, from books and articles to podcasts and discussion groups. With today’s abundance of specialized media, you can dive into specific topics like never before. For example, if you’re curious about the intersection of faith and politics, I might just know a podcast you’d enjoy!
3. Don’t Let the Media Decide What Matters Most To You
Media outlets often prioritize stories based on their own agendas, which can lead to a distorted view of the world if we rely solely on them. Sensationalism and clickbait often overshadow nuanced, important topics, steering our attention toward what’s most profitable for them — not necessarily what’s most impactful for us.
Social media algorithms and 24-hour news cycles thrive on outrage and polarization, but we don’t have to play along. By intentionally filtering what I consume and questioning why certain stories are being pushed, I stay informed without being swept away by the noise of the latest headlines.
Ultimately, taking control of what I focus on helps me engage with politics on my own terms, rather than letting the media decide for me.
4. Let Go of Outrage Over Hypocrisy
If I’m honest, hypocrisy in politics used to drive me up the wall. It felt infuriating to watch leaders contradict themselves or hold others to standards they wouldn’t meet. But I’ve come to realize that fixating on hypocrisy can be a massive distraction from the real issues that matter. Politics is inherently full of contradictions, and while calling out hypocrisy is valid, letting it consume my energy and focus is unproductive.
For instance, the minority party in Congress will almost always position itself as more fiscally conservative than the majority party — it’s a predictable cycle. Once I started recognizing these patterns of hypocrisy as part of the political landscape, I found it easier to focus on meaningful aspects of governance, policy, and accountability.
5. Think of Political Parties as Tools, Not Identities
Political parties exist to organize ideas and mobilize action, but they don’t define who I am. While I consider myself a Democrat because, at a national level, their platform aligns with many of the things I value, I recognize that no party is perfect or all-encompassing.
By keeping my beliefs front and center, I avoid falling into the trap of treating political parties like a core part of my identity. They’re a means to an end, not a club to join unconditionally. This perspective has freed me to question, criticize, and even diverge from my party when its actions or priorities don’t align with my values.
When I treat parties as tools rather than identities, I engage with politics more thoughtfully and authentically. It’s not about loyalty to a brand; it’s about staying true to the principles that matter most to me.
6. Read Source Documents When Possible
It’s easy to rely on articles, summaries, political pundits on TV, or even social media posts to keep up with political issues. But whenever I really want to understand an issue that’s important to me, I make it a point to go directly to the source — whether it’s legislation, legal filings, or official transcripts. This approach allows me to form my own opinions without relying entirely on someone else’s interpretation or spin.
With tools like artificial intelligence at our fingertips, it’s easier than ever to analyze and understand complex documents. Here’s a tip: the next time Congress passes a bill that interests you, download the PDF and upload it into a platform like ChatGPT to ask questions or summarize it. It’s a powerful way to challenge your own biases and dig deeper into the details that matter most.
7. Be Open to Changing Your Mind
Politics is constantly evolving, and recognizing this has helped me avoid becoming too attached to specific policies, trends, or ideologies. Change is inevitable, whether it’s in leadership, societal values, or the political landscape itself.
Staying open to new information and perspectives allows me to engage with politics in a way that is fluid and adaptable, rather than rigid and dogmatic. This doesn’t mean abandoning core values — it means being willing to refine opinions as new evidence or insights come to light. In a world as complex as ours, flexibility isn’t just helpful; it’s essential for thoughtful and meaningful engagement.
8. Seek Out Different Perspectives
Some of the most valuable insights come from engaging with people who see the world differently. Actively seeking out these perspectives sharpens your understanding, broadens your worldview, and fosters empathy.
If you’re liberal, make an effort to explore trusted conservative voices, podcasts, and articles — and vice versa if you’re a conservative. Listening to thoughtful and well-reasoned arguments, even when you disagree, helps you better understand the nuances of opposing views.
One of the things I enjoy most about our podcast is my co-host’s contrasting perspective. We often disagree on political issues, but his insights help me see American politics through a more holistic lens. It’s a reminder that understanding doesn’t always mean agreement, but it always enriches the conversation.
9. Ask “Who Benefits?”
When evaluating a policy or decision, one of the most revealing questions you can ask is, “Who stands to gain or lose from this?” This simple question often uncovers the motivations, interests, and potential biases behind political actions or narratives.
Whether it’s a piece of legislation, a campaign promise, or a media story, following the trail of who benefits can provide deeper clarity on why certain decisions are being made or why specific issues are being prioritized. It’s not about cynicism — it’s about understanding the power dynamics at play.
10. Don’t Assume You Know Why Someone Voted the Way they Did
Voting is a deeply personal decision, shaped by a complex mix of beliefs, priorities, and life experiences. It’s tempting to assume that someone’s vote reflects a specific value or belief, but the reality is often far more nuanced. People may choose a candidate for reasons that don’t fully align with the candidate’s platform or public image.
Rather than jumping to conclusions, I approach these conversations with curiosity and empathy. Asking questions and listening to understand their perspective not only fosters more respectful dialogue but also helps build bridges across political divides. Assumptions shut conversations down — curiosity opens them up.
Closing Thoughts
These ten principles haven’t eliminated every frustration I’ve faced, but they’ve transformed how I engage with politics. By staying focused, intentional, and grounded, I’ve found a way to navigate the noise while remaining true to my values.
If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, disillusioned, or simply exhausted by the state of politics, I hope these insights offer you some clarity and peace. Politics doesn’t have to be a constant source of stress. With a thoughtful approach, it can become a pathway to understanding, meaningful connection, and even hope for a better future.
This article originally appeared on the Faithful Politics Substack.
William Wright is the Creator/Producer and host of the Faithful Politics Podcast. Each week William (Democrat), and his cohost Pastor Josh Burtram (Republican) cover topics that intersect the world of faith and politics. You can follow him on Twitter @FaithfulPolitik.
